November 1, 1981
It’s Sunday.
A day of peace and the river flows below me here like a
silent friend, who shows his wounds in rusted tin cans and broke bottles, and
the oil slick that covers the surface like a second skin.
I come here often with my woes, and though the river gives
no advice, it gives comfort, accepting my pathetic ranting about lost love and
minor infractions, and flows on with them.
Today, I rant about “me,” a self-centered bit of tribe that
devours me from the inside with its narcissistic poison.
I feel it spreading through my chest, leaving me cold and
distant.
I’ve constructed a shell around myself, emotionally, if not
spiritually, trying not to let other people’s opinions bother me.
“You have to protect yourself,” others have told me, “Look
out for number one.”
And I do. And yet it bothers me.
And I do. And yet it bothers me.
Sometimes, I suffer from spiritual narcissism, aching just
to grab and run, and not look back at the landscape of damage my personal greed
might cause.
I problem is I always look back, always feel bad, and though
I still look out for myself, I feel guilty about it, thinking there has to be a
better way to do things that doesn’t cause other people pain.
The donut cook where I work tells me I’m nuts, saying that
we can’t look out for anybody but ourselves.
This kills me. It makes me wonder if we have managed to
evolve at all from animals the way we like to think – doing onto others before
they do onto us.
It’s not the murder and mayhem I have a problem with, it’s
the mistrust – and how I ache to trust everybody I meet, and most times it’s
the right thing to do, but not always, and I don’t want to be one of those
people with my hands in other people’s pockets, or to grab the last donut off
the shelf.
I don’t want to walk around thinking I’m the most important
person on the planet the way many people do – most often, they aren’t, but
think they are. And yet, there are times when I catch myself trying to get the
larger piece of the pie, if only to keep some other son of a bitch from getting
it first.
I read a newspaper article about one of the mill owners
claiming the dead fish floating near one of the mill drains has nothing to do
with his operations.
I see jerks with cross bows shooting fish from the top of
the Outwater Lane Bridge
just because they like killing things.
Some kids set fire to the dry brush just because they can.
And me, I guess maybe I want a piece of the action just like
all of the high rollers that come up the parkway from Atlantic City, I just
want to be able to look myself in the mirror and say I got there because I
earned it, and sometimes, I don’t want to go through all the fuss.
So I confess my sins to this old friend, river, both of us
suffering each others pain, knowing that when I walk away I’ll feel a little
better, until next time.
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