Sunday, August 7, 2022

Transgender dating game August 7, 2022

 

Old school date night was a nightmare back when there were only two genders to worry about.

A guy shows up, then waits as the gal fusses about what dress to wear, what color lip stick, how to wear her hair.

These days of gender fluidity you don't even know if it will be a girl or boy or something unaffiliated that walks down the stairs when you get there.

Gay relations made great changes to the dating scene after Stone Wall Inn riot in 1969.  But at least you knew the gender of the person you made a date with would be the same gender as the one you met when you arrived.

Of course, this gets infinitely more complex if both parties in this arrangement are fluid.

What if both decide they wanna be boys that night or girls? What happens if their outfits clash? And who is responsible to pay the tab for dinner? And who is responsible to bring the dildos?

God help us all if they want to get kinky. Will there be arguments over which one is submissive?

There is the dreadful disappointment it the expectant partner when his or her date decides to be unaffiliated or worse decides he or she is a cat or dog or even a pet rock and you mistakenly bring flowers and candy instead of cat or dog treats.

What if in mid date your partner changes his or her mind? Who then gets to lead on the dance floor?

Or even changes his or her mind in the middle of sex and starts meowing!

And if your partner bites or scratches you at the height of passion, will you need to get shots for rabis

 or distemper?

What about the good night kiss when you take him or her home as a different gender than when you left, and you don't happen to be gay at that moment he or she identifies as the same gender as you?

Hopefully someone will soon come up with a guide for dating.


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